Reach the player behind the performance
So you can understand what’s happening when she shuts down, gets frustrated, or seems afraid to make a mistake.
For coaches ready to unite their team
The conversation that builds a team that believes in each other when the game gets hard.
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Let me guess.
You know your players are capable of more than you’re seeing when they take the field together.
You have talent, you put in the practice time, and there are moments when you see how good this team could become. But then a bad inning changes the dugout, one player disappears into her own frustration, and you find yourself trying to pull everybody back together when you should be coaching the game.
You’ve talked about staying positive, picking each other up, and putting the team first, but you’re still watching players hang their heads after mistakes, stick to their own little groups, or struggle to reach a teammate who keeps saying she’s fine.
I’ve been on both sides of this as a player. I’ve felt the extraordinary connection of our 2004 Olympic gold medal team, and I’ve been the athlete who worked incredibly hard while quietly worrying about whether I was good enough.
Looking confident and feeling confident aren’t always the same thing, even for the player everybody else looks up to.
That’s why one of the most valuable things I’ve done with teams is bring players together for an honest conversation about what they’re afraid of when they compete. When the player everyone admires admits she worries about letting the team down, other players begin recognizing something they’ve been carrying themselves, and they start understanding the person beside them differently.
I wrote What Great Teams Say Out Loud to show you how to lead that conversation and turn what your players learn into how they treat each other on the field.
So you can understand what’s happening when she shuts down, gets frustrated, or seems afraid to make a mistake.
So players learn to value and support teammates they don’t naturally connect with.
So your players know how to help each other after a strikeout, an error, or a difficult inning.
When it matters most
Imagine your team protecting a one-run lead in the bottom of the seventh. Your pitcher misses her spot, but your catcher settles her down, your infield stays locked in, and the dugout gets behind her instead of waiting for something to go wrong.
Now picture the hitter who struck out twice walking to the plate with the winning run on base, knowing her teammates still believe she can bring that run home. You’ve built a team that stays together, wants the next opportunity, and keeps competing instead of letting one mistake become the inning that costs you the game.
As a coach, you want that connection to carry over to the scoreboard: finishing the close games that used to slip away, coming through in the clutch, and celebrating the big wins together. This book gives you a practical place to start building the trust behind that kind of team, and a way to keep working on it before the next game puts it to the test.

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